I get asked this question quite a lot and my answer is always the same.
‘I don’t know.’
There are many things that will make me go “Ah!” when it comes to a guy. It is generally not based on looks (but if you have nice legs or strong arms, I might say hi 😉 )
I find a guy attractive on his personality or how they treat someone. If they are a great guy but they treat say, wait staff with disrespect then shame, life is tough and you won’t get me.
The same goes for if you are attractive and you have an ugly personality then unfortunately you are unattractive.
In high school I went to a co-ed school and we had this guy that pretty much every girl in the entire school thought he was attractive (which he is) but he had the worst personality and treated everyone like rubbish which was such a turn off. Why do you have to do that?
It’s the same thing when it comes to guys who are not attractive based on societal norms (who cares about society norms anyway?)
If they have a great personality then who cares about what they look like? I think I am possibly the only person to think that.
I really honestly don’t care what race the person is, who they are or what they look like. I care if they treat others kindly; if they love Jesus and if they treat me right.